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What the Victorians didn’t say
A family historian and former counsellor traces her Victorian grandfather’s emotional distance back through three generations of unspoken loss, poverty, and depression.
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Forgotten Children Bovine TB: Hidden History Wins Award
There is a particular satisfaction in receiving recognition for work that is not really about you. ‘Yet’ recovers the story of the forgotten children of bovine tuberculosis. Hundreds of thousands of British children were hospitalised for months, sometimes years, in the era before effective treatment existed. When I learned the book had been awarded Runner-up…
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Mary Allott Victorian Recipe Book: Domesticity as Defence
In 1860, the Mary Allott Victorian recipe book began when a twenty-four-year-old woman abandoned by her husband opened a blank notebook. Over the next fifty years, she would fill it with over 280 recipes—each one a defence against the accusation that she had lost her husband through domestic inadequacy. This recipe book sits within the…
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The Voyage of the Shalimar, 1859: The Man Who Sailed Away and the Wife He Left Behind
On 12 September 1859, Thomas Alexander Kidd stood on Liverpool’s bustling docks with his family, ready to leave everything behind. The former merchant, magistrate and police commissioner had sold his comfortable life for steerage tickets to New Zealand. Beside him waited his wife, Mary Agnes, and their six children—Eliza, Georgina, Mary, Helen, Frances and young…
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When Your Mother-in-Law Testifies Against You: Mary Allott’s 1875 Victorian Divorce Trial
Imagine finally fighting for freedom from the husband who abandoned you sixteen years ago and petitioning a court for a divorce. You’ve hired a solicitor. Gathered evidence. Risked public scandal. You’re testifying about adultery, disease, and desertion—intimate details that will be published in the local newspaper for all Sheffield and Chesterfield to read. Then your…
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LGBTQ+ Family History: Researching Hidden Estrangement and Reclaiming Erased Ancestors
Content Warning: This article discusses LGBTQ+ discrimination, forced family separation, institutionalisation, and historical persecution. Content includes: Criminalisation of homosexuality and forced institutionalisation Conversion therapy and medical ‘treatments’ now recognised as torture Family rejection and estrangement due to sexual orientation or gender identity Suicide (Alan Turing) Historical violence and discrimination against LGBTQ+ people If you’re currently…
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‘Improperly Married’: The Victorian Women the Law Forgot
Victorian England had no language for women like Mary Allott. Improperly married Victorian women existed in law, but their situation had no name and no remedy. Not quite wives. Not quite abandoned. Not widows. Not single. Married but without a partner. They were ‘improperly married’ Victorian women, and it would have catastrophic consequences for Mary’s…
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Mary Allott Fought Back: Victorian Divorce Court 1875
In 1875, Mary Allott sat in a Sheffield office facing a pivotal moment. She was an improperly married woman about to testify in the Victorian divorce court 1875—a system designed to judge women like her. Every word would be recorded, sent to London, and published in local newspapers for all to read. She testified anyway.…
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The Recipe Book That Sustained a Life: Mary Allott’s Victorian Story of Abandonment, Scandal, and Survival
In 1860, a young woman with a newborn opened a blank notebook with an A-Z index and began to write. Mary Allott, née Hopkinson, was about twenty-four years old, a mother of two. A few days before she gave birth, her husband Charles had sailed for New Zealand, leaving their two-year-old son with his mother…
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A video introduction to ‘Yet’
Have you ever wondered about the hidden stories that shaped our families and communities? The ones often left untold, buried under stigma and silence? In my latest video, I share the extraordinary journey of my father, Harry Drabble, whose life was transformed by childhood trauma, disability, and the choices he made. This story, captured in…
