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'Yet': A Story of Triumph Over Childhood Separation, Trauma, and Disability
'No one believed me. "Children couldn't have been treated like that." But we were.'
—Harry Drabble
About the Book
In 1937, two-year-old Harry Drabble was torn from his mother's arms and confined to Sheffield's King Edward VII Memorial Hospital for Crippled Children. His crime? Contracting bovine tuberculosis from unpasteurised milk.
For seven years, between visits home, Harry endured emotional neglect and isolation—immobilised in plaster casts, strapped to beds, denied movement, touch and comfort. He was allowed one parental visit once a month for one hour. Society wrote him off: a 'cripple' who would never work, marry, or lead an ordinary life.
Harry proved them wrong.
His secret? Three simple words: 'I can't... yet.'
When he was told he would never walk without crutches, he added 'yet'—and as an adult managed it. When he was told he couldn't get qualifications, he added 'yet'—and as my mother later said, went on to collect 'gongs'. When his mother told him no father would let his daughter marry a disabled man, he found love anyway.
Against impossible odds, Harry built the life he was told he couldn't have: marriage, family, a career as an accountant and senior manager alongside a 35-year career as a beloved music teacher who changed his students' lives.
This father-daughter collaboration combines Harry's unflinching memories with meticulous historical research and psychological insights into childhood separation, attachment, and inherited trauma. It shines a light on hundreds of thousands of forgotten British children—and offers a timeless reminder of the transformative power of one word: yet.
What Makes This Book Essential
- Rare first-hand account of long-term childhood hospitalisation in 1930s–1950s Britain
- 161 historical photographs bringing Harry's world to vivid life
- Meticulously researched with 299 endnotes
- Psychological framework exploring how childhood separation affects children
- 18 book club discussion questions to deepen your reading experience
- 322 pages of compelling narrative backed by rigorous scholarship
Perfect for: Family historians, genealogists, social historians, medical history enthusiasts, anyone exploring trauma, readers interested in inspirational stories of resilience and triumph over adversity
Available Formats
Paperback (978-1-9162466-8-3) Large Print Paperback (978-1-0684013-0-5) Hardback (978-1-9162466-9-0) Special Edition Hardback (978-1-0684013-1-2) eBook (978-1-9162466-7-6)
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What Readers Are Discovering
★★★★★ 'A mirror image of what I experienced'
'It brought back a whole lot of memories... I hung onto every word. I was there, back in the hospital with him and remembering. "Yet" has been a mirror image of what I experienced.' — Bob Shaw, former patient, Children's Hospital Birmingham
★★★★★ 'The unknown chapter of my husband's life'
'What a book! Fascinating, informative, but terrifying. The unknown chapter of my late husband's life has now been written. I am more grateful than I can say. It's been a solemn but liberating experience for me and our three children. If I had only known...' — Mary
★★★★★ 'Captures both heartbreak and resilience'
'A deeply moving and beautifully written book. It struck a real chord with me—my own father and his brother went through something very similar in Sheffield. Helen captures that world with honesty, warmth, and compassion. A powerful reminder of how trauma, love and endurance can shape a life.' — Neil Anderson
★★★★★ 'You won't put it down. Top class!'
'Helen's book is a real eye-opener. I have never read anything like it. I won't give too much away, but you won't put it down. Top class!' — Julie Rose, co-author of Tenacity
★★★★★ 'A gift... profoundly moving'
'I just finished reading Yet and want to thank you for this gift. It deeply stirred empathy for Harry and reflections on my own life. Harry's separation from his parents and the emotional weight of his experiences were profoundly moving. A powerful story of resilience and humanity.' — Jon Marie Pearson, family historian
★★★★★ 'An essential read for social historians'
'A brilliant book with a wonderful style of factual writing with deep emotion. Harry's life is inspirational in the way he overcame all disabilities and stigmatisation to build a fulfilling life. The book ends with his marriage to a nurse and the beginnings of a successful career.' — Amazon reviewer
★★★★★ 'Yet': A Story of Triumph over Childhood Separation, Trauma and Disability
★★★★★ 'Gave me a perspective I didn't have'
'This has given me a perspective I did not have previously. I am so grateful you took the time to write this book.' — Kathleen
Further Reviews
The Local Historian (February 2026)
'A remarkable testament to the resilience of one individual in overcoming such huge disadvantages in the face of deprivation and prejudice.'
Reviewer MICHAEL LEACH is a retired GP. Although trained when the scourge of TB had been much diminished by effective triple chemotherapy, he recalls as a student a missed case of hip TB, even though the symptoms would have been familiar to the senior doctors.
British Society for the History of Medicine (BSHM)
'This story illustrates what chronically ill children in long-stay hospitals were expected to tolerate and gives us important messages about children who require recurrent hospital admissions these days. The book has been well written and beautifully illustrated and describes the early life of a man whom one can only admire by the way he overcame his difficulties.' — Dr Michael Whitfield Read the full review at bshm.org.uk/book-reviews
Kevin Brown, author, public speaker, and former chairman of the London Museums of Health and Medicine
'Set against working-class Sheffield during the Second World War, Harry's life is inspirational. Despite assumptions that his disabilities would limit education, work, and marriage, he overcame stigma to build a fulfilling life.'
Julie, We Love Memoir (Facebook)
'An excellent medical memoir and fascinating history. The book blends memoir, family history, and medical insights. Well-constructed with comprehensive detail and photos. A compelling and enjoyable read about a disease I hadn't encountered before.'
Helen Baggott, author and public speaker
'It's a brilliant book! The author has a wonderful style of factual writing with deep emotion—it's wonderful.'
What This Book Does
Readers consistently tell us Yet:
- Explains patterns in their family they couldn't name before
- Provides validation for experiences 'no one believed could happen'
- Offers a framework for understanding inherited emotional distance
- Sparks crucial conversations with ageing parents before it's too late
- Shines light on forgotten chapters of British medical and social history
- Helps family historians understand separation trauma in their family trees
More Than Harry's Story
This is becoming a resource for thousands of families discovering their own hidden histories of separation, silence, and inherited strength.
Between the 1930s and 1950s, hundreds of thousands of British children were separated from their families due to tuberculosis, polio, evacuation, and other conditions. These children spent months or years in hospitals where visiting was restricted, affection forbidden, and emotional needs ignored.
Most of these children grew up. Many became parents and grandparents.
And most carried patterns with them—patterns of emotional distance, hypervigilance, difficulty trusting, a deep belief that 'I'm better off taking care of myself'.
If this sounds familiar, you're not imagining it. Yet helps you understand why.
'Do not weep for me, for I have lived.' — Harry Drabble, 2022
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