• What We Inherit Beyond Genes: Uncovering Our Emotional Ancestry

    What We Inherit Beyond Genes: Uncovering Our Emotional Ancestry

    Sometimes, the patterns we repeat in relationships have less to do with conscious choices and more to do with heritage. Some families keep their distance emotionally, while others feel entangled in each other’s lives. The reason may lie in what I describe as our ‘emotional DNA’ – the unseen inheritance that carries forward the echoes…

  • Attachment Theory and Family History: A Quick Introduction

    Attachment Theory and Family History: A Quick Introduction

    Our earliest bonds with caregivers create blueprints for lifelong relationships, passed down through generations like emotional DNA. By viewing family history through attachment theory, we uncover patterns of connection and disconnection, trauma and resilience. Understanding these invisible inheritances transforms genealogy from collecting names into mapping the emotional currents that shaped—and continue to shape—our families.